Sex, dating, relationships and love (including self-love) are what we talk about on Our Deepest Secrets Revealed. Our interviews are raw and authentic to remove the layer of bulls**t (that often exists) when people talk about these topics. We give you the real mindset…unfiltered! A balance between male and female perspectives on topics.
Episodes
Saturday Jul 28, 2018
How do I know he is interested? - The Male Perspective
Saturday Jul 28, 2018
Saturday Jul 28, 2018
I feel like every guy or woman has this conversation with a friend or even family member in regards to someone they are crushing on…Do you think he likes me?
So today I talk with Dallas to get the male's perspective. We talk about the texting stage, first date, dating and general signs. Join us in the fun and have a few laughs. Because dating shouldn't be taken too seriously...life is about having fun and enjoying the journey!
Wednesday Jul 25, 2018
Some rules are meant to be broken
Wednesday Jul 25, 2018
Wednesday Jul 25, 2018
I believe some rules are meant to be broken as some rules in place by society or ourselves control and restrict us from being our authentic self. Rules that keep us in an emotional fear space I believe we should question...obviously there are many rules we do need in society, and I am not talking about these ones. I'm talking about holding yourself back because of fear of judgment.
Saturday Jul 21, 2018
Why We Attach To "I Love You"
Saturday Jul 21, 2018
Saturday Jul 21, 2018
It feels like we can often attach to the phrase "I love you" from a partner...it can mean so much or it can affect your relationship if it isn't said enough, at the right time etc. This is why I think we often attach to it. When we attached to "I love you" this means we have expectations and this is where the danger can lie.
Today I talk with Cheryne Blom about attachment to this phrase, the different types of love as well as different love strategies. Love strategies mean the way you show your partner that you love them.
Check out - www.cheryneblom.com - for her new e-book called “Think yourself happy. 101 Positive affirmations to empower your day.” You just need to click on the read now button.
Wednesday Jul 18, 2018
The magic happens outside of your comfort zone
Wednesday Jul 18, 2018
Wednesday Jul 18, 2018
I believe the magic happens outside of your comfort zone and today I want to share my personal experience of this and how you can get out of a routine and use fear to motivate you instead of paralyzing you.
Saturday Jul 14, 2018
Saturday Jul 14, 2018
Themes for today’s episode and some quotes I’d like to share with you all:
“Love when you’re ready and not when you’re alone” ~ UNKNOWN.
“The wrong relationships teach you how to recognize the right one when it arrives”~ Mandy Hale.
And finally: “you can’t make someone be ready for what you’re ready for. And you’re not obligated to wait around for them to make up their mind”~ UNKNOWN.
Today we are going to talk about: Are you or your love interest emotionally ready for each other?
I’ve invited to the show Antia & Brody Boyd to discuss this and share their thoughts and advice for anyone wants to know if a love interest is emotionally ready or possibly discover you aren't as ready as you personally thought yourself.
Antia & Brody are dating coaches and have been helping thousands of successful single men & women all over the world for over two decades combined. They help people to attract the ideal partner of their dreams quickly without the feelings of loneliness, frustration or like you’re wasting any more precious time!
http://FindTheOneElite.com
Saturday Jul 07, 2018
How you can create heaven on earth
Saturday Jul 07, 2018
Saturday Jul 07, 2018
“It is better to conquer yourself than to win a thousand battles. Then the victory is yours. It cannot be taken from you, not by angels or by demons, not by heaven or hell” said the Buddha. To expand on this further, I wonder if feeling complete self-love is how we experience heaven on earth?
So today we are discussing the concept of creating Heaven on Earth for yourself.
I’ve invited back to the show, Brandon Bozarth, to explain to us his concept of creating Heaven on Earth.
We talk about detachment, self-love, being excited to die, how to see something previously perceived as negative as a blessing and why self-love is important for our relationships...in particular when dating or in a romantic relationship.
Brandon helps visionaries, entrepreneurs and thought leaders mater their life’s work by integrating their fear so they can experience true freedom. He has a coaching business, holds retreats, workshops, and seminars in the U.S. and abroad and is available for coaching here in Los Angeles and of course, anyone else situated outside of LA, thanks to technology.
Saturday Jun 30, 2018
Saturday Jun 30, 2018
Today I wanted to discuss the best way to end any form of romantic relationship – especially when you want to call it quits when you don’t want to date someone anymore. It feels like the earlier stage of the dating period can be awkward in the sense…many people don’t know what the “right” way is to end it with someone that you aren’t in a formal relationship with…
Today I’ve invited Gene Stark to share his perspective. Over the years we’ve had many conversations about relationships and dating, so I thought it was time to bring him on the show.
Saturday Jun 30, 2018
Saturday Jun 30, 2018
Today I wanted to discuss the best way to end any form of romantic relationship – especially when you want to call it quits when you don’t want to date someone anymore. It feels like the earlier stage of the dating period can be awkward in the sense…many people don’t know what the “right” way is to end it with someone that you aren’t in a formal relationship with…
For the female’s perspective, I’ve invited a friend, Jenny and we have a lot of fun. We also talk about ghosting and even have a live Tinder swiping session!
Saturday Jun 23, 2018
The War Within - Men Are Suffering In Silence
Saturday Jun 23, 2018
Saturday Jun 23, 2018
“Men are at war – within themselves. That is what is fueling the division of our families, communities and the world.”
This is a quote from the man I’ve invited to the show today, JuVan Langford…an inspirational thought-leader whose mission is to help empower men. Today we talk about The War Within: Men Are Suffering In Silence.
In light of Father’s Day in the states last week, this episode has a very powerful message for fathers and men. Listen up. This one is dedicated to all the men in my life. Starting with my family – my incredible father who has taught me much and to my strong and loving brothers. Also, to all the men that I call a friend or colleague, thank you, this is also dedicated to you.
The MENtour™, established May 2012 in Los Angeles, by founder, JuVan Langford, is an educational non-profit committed to delivering social-emotional and character development skills to middle and high school-aged boys. During the most impressionable period of their lives, The MENtour offers a safe space where young men learn how to thrive in the classroom and beyond. Having served 1200+ male scholars to date, our vision is to triple our impact globally by the year 2020.
For more information: http://juvanlangford.com
Saturday Jun 16, 2018
Compromising in relationships - The Male Perspective
Saturday Jun 16, 2018
Saturday Jun 16, 2018
Compromising in a relationship -- we've all been there and most likely definitely over-compromised in a relationship. Today we discuss this and how to find the balance. We all know a healthy relationship is a balance of giving and take and there definitely needs to be compromises made, but how much is too much compromise?
For the male's perspective, Josh, shares his personal experiences of over-compromising and how it affected his life. After many years married he decided to end his marriage and start over again. This includes recently leaving a longstanding career and leaping into the unknown.